Romance is a factor that should be constant in every successful relationship. Even though it gets difficult to keep it fresh at times, we ladies still need to do our part in making it worthwhile.
Which of the romantic gifts have you tried before? Check out these 10 romantic gift ideas, which I gave my man over the years that always worked the magic.
1. 100 Reasons Book
Can you come up with a hundred reason why: “You love him”, “Why he is the best”, “Why you are lucky to have him” and so on?
If you can do this, then you are almost there. Get a little notepad and use marker pens to design the back cover. Make it obvious that it is a book of 100 reasons and then you write the reasons on each page of the book.
Feel free to add some naughty reasons from your relationship. Do this and give it to him, but add a note to help him understand that he should take out and read just one reason a day.
This will be a way to brighten up his mornings for 100 days. Of course he will have something interesting to wake up to everyday.
2. First Kiss
The first kiss is a very significant one, which is not easily forgotten. You can use this idea to present him the possibility of living this moment over again.
Did you play the game of treasure hunt as a child? Which means you know the rules. It would be interesting to apply the same concept of treasure hunt to this gift idea.
Make up few riddles or puzzles that he will unfold and make sure these puzzles are all linked together. The last one will be leading him to the location where you shared your first kiss.
These puzzles could even be used to strengthen your relationship. Use it as an act to ask questions or remind him about things in the relationship.
Start his day by leaving the first piece of puzzle in his jacket pocket, which will leave him guessing and solving puzzles all day till he finds the last part.
At last, when he unlocks the final puzzle and finds his way to the location at the time you selected, you can even add to the surprise by dressing almost the same way and at the same table, in the same restaurant that you had your first kiss.
3. Video of Favorite Moments
Check through your media archive for pictures and videos of the memorable times you shared together. You will then make a picture slideshow or video message with these.
Well, if you do not have recorded videos of such moments, it is not too late to get this; it took me three months before our anniversary to plan mine.
I started by serving him his favorite coffee in bed and I made sure that I got the priceless delight on his face on camera. Then I continued by making some snacks for the weekend when his friends came over to watch the football game; they all liked it and we had a great time (still made some videos and pictures of this).
It went on like this for three months and at the end I had more than enough amazing videos to sect from. I created my video with these and sent to him on our anniversary; he was the happiest man on earth.
There is no price I won’t pay to see him as happy as that everyday. Romanticgifts4him.com has amazing ideas of how to make this more romantic and interesting.
4. Sign in his Car
This used to be one of my favorites when we just started dating, and guess what, it still works like magic till date.
It’s so easy, all you need is to put your creativity to work and add a little romance to it. I sometimes write short love lines on sticky notes and leave on his steering before he leaves in the morning. Sometimes I draw little cute pictures or leave my kiss print with lipstick.
Like this isn’t enough, I even got him a head rest for his car seat; not like the default one wasn’t good enough, but I wanted a creative way to leave my mark in his car.
5. Massage Oil
Who would say no to a free massage? Hope you understand this gift is a form of massage invitation. Basically, what would he do with the oil or who will massage him if not you.
However, you can be sure to benefit from this also because one good massage deserves to be returned. So while you are at it you should as well be ready for your own massage turn.
I doubt it if you will both be able to get to the end of this with all the heat because the incredibly nice scent of the oil alone is enough to get you started.
6. Sexy Lingerie
Be relaxed, the lingerie isn’t for him to wear, but of course for you. Every man loves seeing his lady in sexy lingerie, which is why we should take this to our advantage.
Go shopping for a new set of sexy lingerie and surprise him with a dinner treat. Or better still, you can get the catalogue and trickily ask him which one he likes most; then you know what to do next.
Just before the end of dinner, excuse yourself and come back in this lingerie; definitely he would choose the best choice for dessert.
7. Candy Underwear
Have you seen this before? It comes in various flavors, which gives you the chance of selecting one in the flavor of his favorite candy or fruit. Come to think of it, it is a very great idea for partners that enjoy oral pleasure.
Now you have a more interesting way to eat your favorite fruit or candy and at a very fascinating location on your partner’s body.
8. Monogamy Adult Couples Game
This is one amazing adult board game for couples that includes over 50 fantasies and 400 seductive ideas.
Just make sure the evening is free for the both of you before introducing this game. I must confess; it will take a lot of work for you both to pass from the intimate to the passionate level, not to even think of the third level, which is steamy.
9. Hand Written Letter
Sorry to say, but the evolution of technology has gradually made it impossible to receive a handwritten letter in our time. Or can you tell me the last time you got one?
Take a throwback move and do it the traditional way, go to the stationery store and get a fancy piece of paper with pen to write on. You can sprinkle your perfume on it when done; this will make it feel like a part of you came with the letter as he reads and perceives your scent.
10. Plan a Romantic Trip
Do you know that having regular romantic trips makes your relationship stronger? This has been proven from analysis and experiments by specialists.
Plan a trip somewhere within your city or far away, but make sure it is romantic and somewhere of his taste. It is obvious that not everyone can afford to fly a jet down to an island somewhere for the weekend, but there are still ways to go about it.
Have you heard of the staycation? Yeah, it is an interesting one. Look around for a hotel that he would love, book a room that has a nice view for two.
Move in with your bottle of wine and other supplies, dress in your sexy lingerie while he would be in his silk robe and lounge all weekend. I would select a hotel that has a swimming pool, probably will get a chance to recreate some of our throwback romantic moments.
So have you tried any of these romantic gift ideas for him before? I will like to read about his reaction when you gave him this gift.